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Please help me with College Stress?

By admin on Sunday, January 23rd, 2011 | 2 Comments

I’m pretty much on my own as far as applying for colleges, grants, scholarships and the like. I’ve graduated and decided to enroll in the New York Institute for Photogrpahy. It’s about 8 months or so I believe, and online. So that’s squared away. I’m just working on getting grants and such to pay for it. Then in about a year I would like to attend a real college, and have the real experiences of college life. But every time I try to prep for SATs or look at colleges or read up on grants/scholarships I feel so overwhelmed that I think I’m beginning to have small panic/anxiety attacks. I don’t know how to handle stress at all. Please help me in any way you can. I’m so lost and stressed I don’t even know if I know what I’m asking here. I just need a way to calm down, and get my head on straight and not be intimidated by all of this. And I also need to prep for my SATs in December and how do I go about looking for grants and scholarships for myself? Any help is so appreciated. Thank you.

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husband (of 7 years) doesn’t understand my financial strain and stress help please!!!!?

By admin on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011 | 2 Comments

My husband and I are under major financial stress right now. I just got a part-time job which was very difficult to come by these days. His mom has helped us by paying our bills. I need full time work but now near christmas is going to be near impossible to find anything.
(holiday help is already hired.)
He doesn’t work at all…due to some health/ legal things which I won’t get into.
Last night he woke up at 2am and says he can’t sleep….and accuses me of not really being stressed out from our situation becuase I can sleep. My mind goes crazy during the day and when I am at work learning a new job and going to the store and watching other famililes who seem to be able to have a non stressful life.
I tried to explain this to him and he says he doesn’t see that I am effected. Now I feel like I shouldn’t be able to sleep too…so I feel inadequate. I also think that depression can make people sleep more and anxiety can make you stress during your waking hours. I do handle stress very well…and I feel that in order to get through this nasty time in our lives….I have to deal with it in a healthy way for our kids sake and to be able to get up to work everyday.
Any comments from anyone? How can I be more empathetic towards my husband? I know he has stress from not working and stuff, but to make me try and feel like I dont’ show any kinds of stress…that’s just wrong. I want him to know that I am stressed and many times I HAVE told him just how stressed I am and he responds and says ” don’t worry everything will be fine” and ” don’t get all worked up right now.”
I am so confused….

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husband doesn’t understand my financial strain and stress help please!!!!?

By admin on Friday, January 21st, 2011 | 4 Comments

My husband and I are under major financial stress right now. I just got a part-time job which was very difficult to come by these days. His mom has helped us by paying our bills. I need full time work but now near christmas is going to be near impossible to find anything.
(holiday help is already hired.)
He doesn’t work at all…due to some health/ legal things which I won’t get into.
Last night he woke up at 2am and says he can’t sleep….and accuses me of not really being stressed out from our situation becuase I can sleep. My mind goes crazy during the day and when I am at work learning a new job and going to the store and watching other famililes who seem to be able to have a non stressful life.
I tried to explain this to him and he says he doesn’t see that I am effected. Now I feel like I shouldn’t be able to sleep too…so I feel inadequate. I also think that depression can make people sleep more and anxiety can make you stress during your waking hours. I do handle stress very well…and I feel that in order to get through this nasty time in our lives….I have to deal with it in a healthy way for our kids sake and to be able to get up to work everyday.
Any comments from anyone? How can I be more empathetic towards my husband? I know he has stress from not working and stuff, but to make me try and feel like I dont’ show any kinds of stress…that’s just wrong. I want him to know that I am stressed and many times I HAVE told him just how stressed I am and he responds and says ” don’t worry everything will be fine” and ” don’t get all worked up right now.”
I am so confused….

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Help! Paranoid Schizophrenic and Stress?

By admin on Wednesday, January 19th, 2011 | 3 Comments

Help me, please. I got out of the psych hospital sometime in May for my 5th or 6th hospitalization for paranoid schizophrenia. I’ve been waiting to get okay again and have been almost good. 90-95% after the initial couple weeks after I was released. However, I had a setback this evening. Can I not handle stress? I was irritated by my dad who is crazy himself. He has nothing to do but pay attention to my medication in the pill box on the refrigerator. I told him to leave me alone a couple times already and that I have enough medication. He is always annoying to me and just talking to him raises my blood pressure and stresses me out. He bothered me again today and I told him to leave me alone. Later, I went to pick my mom up from work and she really annoyed me as well. She is also really annoying to me. I had told her when I got out of the hospital that I should call INS for my aunt. My mom told me no, I didn’t have to call and everything was fine. I asked her two different times. Today, she mentioned she wanted me to call because it had been a long time. This really irritated me because both of my parents are retarded about most things in life and are terrible parents. I asked her why she told me not to call before when I asked her. I am not mentally stable and I don’t want to call now. I was ready to call before when I asked her. Right now I have to deal with my own things and don’t want to call INS. Anyway, these are minor stresses but today when I dropped my mom off and went to take a walk around the park, I felt myself coming unhinged. I fled home. I feel okay again in the sanctuary of my room. I am also stressed deeply in the back of my mind about some crazy emails I emailed someone as soon as I got out of the hospital. I want to ignore it. I know it won’t go away. I think about it often and push it into the back of my mind but it’s still there. Anyway, I feel my coming unhinged tonight has more to do with the minor stresses of my *stupid* parents. I really don’t like either one but I must love them because they are my parents. I’m lucky to get to live with them right now while I am trying to fix my life after crazy time (x 3) but, really, I wouldn’t be crazy if it wasn’t for my crazy parents anyway (genetically + how they raised me). Help me, please. Do I need more medication or a different one? I won’t be able to live life if minor stresses make me unhinged. Have you been through this and have some advice for me?
I’ve been on Seroquel 200mg daily since January. I haven’t missed a dosage. I know how important it is to take my antipsychotic medication and antidepressant or any other medication. Even though I was on the Seroquel, I ended up with another episode in May and my parents put me back in the hospital since they love to just drop me off there even though I am of no harm to anyone. I was on something else at the hospital in November and December but they were both very difficult for me to deal with. Seroquel feels alright but 200mg must not be enough if I am getting unhinged at minor stresses? I don’t want Zyprexa again as it made me fat.
I’ve been on Seroquel 200mg daily since January. I haven’t missed a dosage. I know how important it is to take my antipsychotic medication and antidepressant or any other medication. Even though I was on the Seroquel, I ended up with another episode in May and my parents put me back in the hospital since they love to just drop me off there even though I am of no harm to anyone. I was on something else at the hospital in November and December but they were both very difficult for me to deal with. Seroquel feels alright but 200mg must not be enough if I am getting unhinged at minor stresses? I don’t want Zyprexa again as it made me fat.
To the idiot …Possum, I don’t think I can prescribe my own medication. I told my dad I have enough medication in my pill containers. He is always asking me to go to the pharmacy to refill my medication even when I have enough pills in the pill containers. You’re an idiot who didn’t understand what I wrote. Also, my dad is crazy as well. Did you read that part?!?
RWPossum is really an idiot who can’t read. I also wrote at the end of my question: Do I need more medication or a different one? Does that sound like I think I am taking “enough medication?”

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Dealing With Modern Day Life Is Filled With Stress?

By admin on Sunday, January 16th, 2011 | 1 Comment

My modern day life is filled with stress. There are stress and pressures from all directions. When I go to work, I have to deal with an assertive boss, manipulative colleagues, backstabbing, my memory problem, my back and knee injury, coping with stress and pressures at learning the job (Time, speed and without mistake) and travelling long journey to work and back home in pack bus. At home – There are things like arguing with parent and brother about house work to do after hard days of work, bills to pay, my study difficulty, health problems of family members and mine. I have to deal with all these things.

So I need to learn how to handle this stress and pressure. I don’t have much money to go short vacation with my family or for myself. If I cannot go on a vacation to a remote location, I think of going to places within my city. I did try to visit the beach or even the nearby park. Just sit in the park everyday for half an hour, observing people around me. Forgetting all my worries for the time being. But the people are fucktub and they make my life stress and I don’t feel like relaxing. I did simplify the problem and I take steps towards a solution and look at the problem from different perspectives. I did look at my strengths and shift my focus towards those things at which excel me. Listening to music, going for walk, sitting at the park where there is no one, doing drawing and studying Math, English and Html and Css program but I still feel stress and not all the time I can do it.

By going for gym or pick up study or watch movie or go for short vacation or hobbies group or social group or exercise group. I see that I don’t have much money to do that and my money is for house and hospital bills and bus fare travelling to work. I went to church to join the social group, bible class, etc and community club to join the school to study or exercise group or gym, etc because of my KSA and I am poor – nobody wants to help me. So I don’t bother about them and I go in my way (I am a FREE THINKER) – all are fuckering asshole. Then I get very depressed and I am taking this anti-depression medicine Escitalopram 10MG two every night and last month the doctor told me that he is going to increase to 3 pills every night. My occupation therapy teaches me about Stress Reduction Techniques but nothing works. Months past and it took likes tough for me to handle stress. I did everything correctly but dealing with my family and people I get very stress and what I am doing everyday to deal with stress, nothing works. What can I do?

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I have a lot of stress regarding my relationship, and I’m looking for some advice / reassurance.?

By admin on Saturday, January 15th, 2011 | 4 Comments

I’ll try to keep it short.

My girlfriend and have been dating for a little over a year and a month. She’s definitely the kind of woman who knows what she wants, so we quickly went through the relationship chain, ending with me proposing at about 11 months. Unfortunately, circumstances have pulled us apart for the next year or so, but we agreed that we’d both stay faithful and work through the issues of a long-distance relationship together. However, since we’ve been apart, an incredible amount of stress has developed. Since I’ve been away, she’s had serious issues dealing with stress, getting to the point where she lets even the small stuff ruin the rest of her day. I’ve always been the one better at dealing with stress, but the constant amount of stress and bad emotions coming through our AIM / phone conversations is constantly piling up on my shoulders, alongside my own mountains of stress. And honestly, I’m starting to crack.

So, my question: Is this serious amount of stress a sign that maybe we’re not meant to be? Or is this somewhat normal of an intense long-distance relationship? Should I wait around for her to handle stress better? Or is it more an issue with how I’m handling listening to her stress?

Look……I really want this to work out. I love her more than anything, and I’ve been trying to resolve this to the best of my ability, but the amount of stress doesn’t seem to be decreasing at all. So, I’m either looking for a second opinion (if I just have my head in the clouds and I’m missing an important fact), or some suggestions for a solution. Either way, I’d appreciate it.

Thanks.

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Stress free volunteering

By admin on Friday, January 14th, 2011 | No Comments

Stress free volunteering
CHARLESTOWN – Wendy Rappaport began volunteering at the WARM Shelter in Westerly a couple of years ago, serving holiday meals. As a yoga instructor, she had the idea to offer scholarships for classes she was offering at the Quonochontaug Grange in Charlestown.

Read more on The Westerly Sun

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Does anyone have a career in stress?

By admin on Friday, January 14th, 2011 | 8 Comments

If so can you answer these questions for me:
1. What types of stress do your patients generally have?
2. Why did you want to help people?
3. What kinds of stress management do you offer your patients?
4. How long does it take for a patient to ask for help?
5. How long does it take for a patient to manage stress?
6. What do you think can stop stress from becoming a major problem?
7. Is stress one of your main symptom for your patients?
8. Does the stress that teens deal with differ in stress in adults?
9. What kinds of stress do you deal with and do you get help with dealing with it?
10. What are the stages of stress?
11. What types of stress can lead up to abuse?
12. In your opinion, are your patients dealing with stress that can’t be helped?
13. Stress causes bad eating habits, what treatments can help patients with this?
14. Eating habits are shaped by the types of stress humans are dealt with, if eating healthy and exercising are good for your body is it good for your stress?
15. Can stress impact your relationships and/or body?
16. What can be a long term effect of stress?
17. How much stress is too much?
18. Can patients with an illness such as cancer or depression handle stress?
19. If stress is leading to suicide, what are the signs?
20. What can stress lead to?
answer the questions for an infromational brochure i am working on icon smile Does anyone have a career in stress?

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coping with midterm stress??

By admin on Wednesday, January 12th, 2011 | 1 Comment

my midterms are next week and i tend to get totally stressed out..how can i study and handle stress at the same time??

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stress and pregnancy?

By admin on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011 | 7 Comments

ok how do you handle stress while pregnant? hubby tells me stop worry (usualy has to deal with money) but like a neighbor who is a mom told me.im female worrying is natural. i know stress messes with your period, but can it mess with the baby???

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